How did you choose your bridal party?
Wikihow suggest this !
Choosing Your Wedding Party
Make a list of all possible options.
Consider immediate family.
Don’t forget about your partner’s family.
Choose approximately one bridesmaid and groomsman for every 50 guests.
Give your wedding party a heads up before they’re invited.
Give expectations for your wedding party’s responsibilities.
Choose drama-free, supportive people who want to be in the wedding.
Think twice before you ask, you can't un ask, ask yourself this.. " will I still be as close to them 5 years from now?"
Ask your siblings! Family will be around on your 5 years anniversary, 10 year anniversary and so on.
Give them set expectations. For example No drinking before the ceremony ! If they cannot follow the rules for your day then leave them out, its your day, and added stress just isn't worth it .